Well my weekend flew by, so quickly that I actually missed going to a bridal shower on Sunday. I was so upset when I realized I had missed it I just sat down and cried. ARGH!! I hate to let people down when I have made a committment to be somewhere. I have alot of events and committments going on right now. It is time to stop and regroup! So today I will take a deep breathe and search for balance that I so desparately need right now! I don’t want to let anyone down again and forget a commitment I have made! That is just not ok! Of course my friend was wonderful about it, but I was so upset by it. That just can’t happen again!
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Thanks for the comment on my xanga, I’ve been struggling a bit, but I’ll get there. Sorry I haven’t keep up with Michelle’s group much. I try to get in there and peek around, but I’ve been super busy with our NC local and main FLYlady groups. I’m moderator for one group and co-moderator for about 3 others so that makes things extra busy. We just started a group called FlyingwithCurves if you are interested I’ll send you an invitation.
As to your missing your friend’s bridal shower, I know how that feels and I hate it. I try to keep track of everything on my calendar, but weekends especially can sneak up on me since I don’t follow my normal routine as closely. You have to find what works for you. My calendar is in my bathroom, so if I get makeup on for the day, potty, or brush my teeth in there, I’m right next to it. That helps a little, but isn’t foolproof. I have a Palm that I set an alarm for things that I’m sure to forget and it is very helpful. However, it is still not helpful if I have it buried under a pile of clothes or something. So, I guess the bottom line is that you have to find “your” thing that works. I’m glad your friend understood but I feel sad for you because I know it made you feel terrible. We all do it, so forgive yourself and let it go!! {{Hugs}} –Happy