The other thing that bugged me today about the appointment with the psychologist was that some of the things he was saying about the IEP, OT and private therapies were completely WRONG.   I didn’t say anything, but he didn’t seem to be too knowledgable about the IEP or qualifications for OT, etc.   He just does not have the expertise we need.  On the way out he tells my hubby and I how complicated and challenging it is to figure out what is wrong with Erik.  DUH!   Not like we haven’t been struggling since he was in kindergarten.  We of all people know something is wrong with him, I just wish the “professionals” could figure out what it is.    Way more frustrating to me than it is to my hubby.

The other things that is interesting, some things I and Erik’s mother report, and we see similair things, my hubby will say well I haven’t experienced that.  Which I just say ok….but the truth of the matter is Eriks’ mother and I are his primary caregivers.  Hubby doesn’t do alot of the day to day reminders and cares of Erik even when he is at home and he is gone at work alot so it would make sense that he doesn’t see alot of the same behaviors.