Lot of people have mentioned that myabe exercising before bed isn’t a great idea. But it is the only time in the day that is mine. Every other minute it either work or taking care of my family. I am having one of those days when I am feeling very unappreciated. It isn’t that I do it for appreication, but man, sometimes some people are jsut takers everyday and don’t give much!
I rented a DVD last wekeend and get to have it for a week, do you think I have been able to watch any of it. NO, it isn’t seen as important because it is something I want to do. So instead my hubby is watching a movie he has seen before and I will end up returning my DVD unwatched. I swear I am going to jsut stop trying to do anything for myself, never happens. This is not the first DVD I had to return unwatched. But if it is something hubby wants to watch, it gets watched. Funny how that happens.
Ok..that is my monthly hubby complaint. I better stop before I really start…LOL!!
Tooday was busy at work, I got a lot accomplished and only worked 8 hours. I was home by 5:00 had supper and took a little nap from 5:30 to 5:55 and then we were to church by 6:00. Church was ok, Tommy was good.
We did an activity where you had to describe your child if they were a toy, animal and food. So that was sort of funny. I haven’t mentioned, but our pastor at our church is leaving. It is very sad for me. He married us, and baptized Tommy. I really like him a lot. He, his wife and daughters have been in our Families First class with us. So we have gotten to know them better through there. He is actually changing careers and I really do understand and I do think it will be good for his family, but they will be deeply missed.
Well since I won’t be watching any TV tonight, I think I will exercise a bit early and jsut call is a night. Hope everyones week is going well. It is 1/2 way to the weekend!! YEAH!!!!
I totally understand. I always feel guilty if i ever want to do something for myself. I still do it something, but I end feling i have to fully explain to everyone why I deserve to ___ for myself and why it’s ok.
And thank you’s? those are far and few between! ha! but you know, how much do we thank our husbands in a way that they like to hear? most likely it’s not as much as we think. (some one mentioned that to me the other day adn I was like hmmm good point) even though obviously most women do more.
second thought… have you thought about working from home? or trying to stay at home and be a fulltime mom? That might make you less stressed since it seems thats what woman have always done and are damn good at =) just a thought.
go do something good for yourelf. and explain to hubby and children how important it is to you (but dont expect them to actually understand!! haha)
you need a little alone time it seems. some time doing nothing. a little bit of that can make the rest of your life SO much easier!
I say exercise whenever you want. It’s gotta be better than doing nothing at all, right?
*hugz* I hope you get some quality “you” time soon! We all need that at least a bit every day.